Ever find yourself thinking thoughts like these? It sure would be nice if I had time to prepare good low fat and low calorie meals. I know I would lose fat then. I am so tired when I get back from work that I just pop anything I can find into the microwave and eat in front of the Television set. The kids occupy so much of my time that I just can't ever get anything cooked that seems to be a healthy meal. All these thoughts gang up on people when they're trying to figure out exactly how they're going to lose the weight that they want to. And it's not like these issues aren't valid, you have a life to live and other folks are in your life. It's not like you just can go off by yourself and live in a cave eating brown rice for each meal. This is the real world and you need some help shedding pounds that works in the real world. Step one. This is your life. You're the one who feels bad about being overweight. And it is your right to be able to take care of yourself in a way that makes you feel great. In a way that makes you feel healthier and in a way that tells other people you are just as important in your life as they are. That is a fact. It is not like they are going to do the training for you. They are not going to look at you and ask if you need some help figuring out a healthy eating plan. You will need to tell them. And this is what prevents many people cold when it comes time to make that major attitude change. They make up the worst type of things in their minds and think about the other people telling those things to them. True enough, sometimes, your spouse is going to whine. Sometimes the children will want pocket pizzas every night just like they used to eat. But a large number of times, people will just say, OK, so what can I do to help. The simplest way to figure out how to make your life work so that you can lose weight is to do some advance planning. But you really can only do that if you decide it is important enough to spend some time on. Meals which are prepared in advance of when you need to eat them are more often than not much more nourishing in a healthy way than meals you eat out and about. Selecting a menu and making a week's meals ahead of time winds up being a lot easier way to eat than almost any other approach. You get the chance to figure out ahead of time what you need to buy to make the meals and you buy those things. You wind up buying surprisingly few additional high calorie snack foods. It is kind of funny. People have this whole mindset against planning out their week's worth of eating, but once they start and keep going for enough time to see some benefits, they become ecstatic with their advancement. Fair warning though, it's hard to prepare a year's worth of meals. Making a schedule of what you're going to eat and sticking to it is one of the best ways to alter your eating routine. And changing your eating habits is about the best way ever to shed pounds and keep it off.